What if sexuality isn't a thing we do… but about listening to who we are?

For a long time, I believed my sexuality had to “look like something specific.”A careful blend of what I’d been shown, what was expected of me, and what I thought I should be. But something was off: I wasn’t ever really there.

My mind said yes, but my body didn’t always follow. My desires stayed quiet, making room for performance. My imagination? Tucked away in a corner, afraid of being too much… or not enough.

And before I knew it, sex had been reduced to two main functions: pleasing and reproducing. Marital duty. Motherhood. Social norms. And where’s the fun in that?

Everything sex could represent — play, spontaneity, curiosity, connection — was smothered under a blanket of obligations.Still, something inside me resisted. A quiet, almost primal pull to reconnect. To rediscover that hidden, fluid, alive part of myself: my erotic identity.

A rediscovery — not a fix

That’s when sex coaching entered my life (well, in a round about way, but that's another story). Not as some magic bullet, nor another call to be more “seductive,” more “liberated,” more something. But as an invitation.

An invitation to listen. To feel. To unlearn everything I’d been taught. To reconcile body and mind, fantasy and reality, pleasure and meaning.

And most of all: to stop thinking something was wrong with me. Because the problem is never that you have unusual, shifting, or missing desires. The real problem is the silence we’re taught to maintain around those topics.

Sexuality isn’t a performance. It’s a language of self-expression — and you deserve to speak it fluently.

What if you too explored your sexuality?

That’s why I now offer sex coaching and sex therapy, in Toulouse or online. Because we all deserve a space to ask questions, explore without shame, and come home to ourselves.

Sex coaching isn’t disguised porn. It’s not a list of positions to master. It’s not even therapy in the traditional sense. It’s a safe and supportive space to experiment, understand what’s blocking you, awaken your desire, and shape a version of sexuality that actually feels like yours — not one you’re trying to live up to.

And if you don’t know where to start, I created a playful little tool to help: 👉 A free quiz to discover your erotic profile, available on the EDGE app.

A mission, not just a job

Through Sex Untold — my practice, my writing, my coaching — one thing remains at the core: Changing the way society talks about sexuality.

Breaking down taboos, judgment, and rigid norms. Creating spaces where everyone can explore desire without needing to explain or perform.

And because men, too, deserve something that speaks to them, I created EDGE — a digital companion designed to help them explore their wants, emotions, and doubts — without pressure, without shame. A private, playful, emotionally intelligent space to understand, accept, and embrace all of who they are — not just the parts they show the world.

Because connecting to your sexuality isn’t selfish. It’s deeply political. It’s rejecting shame, fear, and expectation. It’s saying yes to yourself.

And maybe, just maybe — it’s the beginning of a whole new story.